Attract
Girls ;)
A
common dream among men is to attract a lot of women. Some of us deny it but yes
its true. We want to be able to attract gorgeous and desirable girls. We want
girls to flock around us to get our attention. But the big question is what makes
a woman attracted to a man? For some guys attracting girls are easy while other
guys are confused and still grasping to learn how to attract a girl.
The
first thing that you should do is to assess your physical appearance. Do you
have a muscular body or a handsome face? Are you tall and lean or short and
stout? Well, its undeniable that the first thing a woman will notice in a man
is how he looks. The solution to this is to flaunt your asset! If you have a
lean body, then wear clothes that will show off your figure.
Smile
a lot at her if you have a white smile with perfect teeth. Don’t wear a long
hairstyle or have a lot of facial hair if your face is handsome. Carry yourself
well with good posture because that will make you appear more impressive.
You’ll
look more impressive if you seem more confidant, so have good posture and wear
what is in style. A man needs to pay attention to fashion, too! Dress according
to where you’ll be going. Simple casual wear that’s not over the top will
appeal to more women when you’ll be at a bar.
Or,
if you are out in a casual location, like a coffee shop, don’t dress casually
to match – wearing dressier clothing than necessary will call attention to you,
to the detriment of the men who only wear comfortable clothing. Try for
clothing that attracts the right kind of attention – you want to be noticed as
unusual, not strange! Now, continuing the theme of getting a girl’s attention,
we need to discuss the first approach, and some tips that are necessary to
start a good conversation up with your female interest.
Communication
is important and the way you talk to a woman can make or break your chance of
creating attraction. Knowing how to start and run a conversation is critical.
This is not only applicable when communicating with women but with other people
in general. We talk to promote a product, ask for discounts, get information
from others, share stories with friends or even influence people into believing
our principles.
When
it comes to women, our goal is to share build trust first through
conversations. Small, nice talks can bring about change. Talk about common
interests, current news or situations you are into. Be observant and notice how
she reacts to a topic. Observe how she talks and moves and notice what topics she
loves talking about.
Keep
the talk fun, light and exciting. Women love to talk and they love men whom
they can interact well and with whom they can share their stories including
their emotions. Maintain eye contact while talking. Unknown to a lot of guys,
women are easily attracted to a man who stares at them. This makes their heart
melt and they feel flattered by such act.
Remember
not to project hostility or discomfort when looking at her – maintain eye
contact and warmth, so she knows you are seriously interested in her. Also;
when chatting with a female, don’t become a complainer who has to bring up the
stress of a difficult job with a difficult boss for crappy pay – nothing turns
a woman off faster than a man who whimpers and whines about his life.
Despite
women being naggers, they hate men who voice their complaints frequently. The
best thing one can do is speak in a gentle tone, while remaining alert to her
signals and being ready to adapt to them. Women will frequently try to appear
bored or unavailable, but you can read their body language to determine how
they really feel – their body will betray them, revealing if they like you,
hate you, or are just ambivalent towards you.
Be
aware of these kinds of hints. Ask for her number only if she seems to like
you, but then be bold about it. Don’t even bother if she’s fidgeting and
doesn’t look interested.
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